None like Him: awe of God in the COVID era

This week, I’m revisiting Jen Wilkin’s excellent book None like Him: 10 Ways God is Different from Us (and Why That’s a Good Thing). This book consistently comforts and humbles me, broadening my perspectives. As COVID-19 disrupts nearly everyone’s lives, it's a timely reminder for me. (Don't let the flowery cover fool you... this is not just a women's book.)

Wilkin starts by urging readers to regain a fear of God. She quotes Psalm 111:10 – “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom” - and defines this fear as a “worshipful reverence and awe” (p. 12). Fear of the Lord holds two truths in balance. On one hand God is an approachable, tender Father, and on the other he is transcendent, glorious, and mighty. We need this second truth because in missing God’s majesty, we persuade ourselves of someone else’s majesty, which never ends well.

Wilkin goes on to present ten ways in which God is unlike us. He is...

1. Infinite – the God of no limits. 

Whatever we can measure, we think we can somewhat control: our circumstances, our peers, ourselves. Am I smart? Rich? Moral? Safe? Humans can be measured. God can’t. But “paradoxically, he who is immeasurable is himself the measure of all things” (p. 20): he sets boundaries for oceans, numbers our days and hairs, counts the stars and sand. Our limitations show us that unlike God, we are finite. From the beginning of time, from a child’s earliest steps, we try to rival God. We grasp at the traits that describe God alone (see the rest of this list), instead of cultivating the traits he invites us to reflect, like holiness, love, and wisdom. We worship ourselves and those around us, expecting humans to be limitless, and are invariably disappointed. But God numbers our sins and sorrows, exceeding them with his boundless grace. He teaches us a new way to count:

• counting others above ourselves (Phil. 2:3)
• counting everything as loss compared to knowing Christ (Phil. 3:7-8)
• counting it all joy when we face trials (James 1:2)

2. Incomprehensible – the God of infinite mystery. 

Familiarity breeds contempt. Those in Jesus’ hometown devalued him because they thought they knew all about him. But God can’t be fully known. While he shows us enough of himself to sanctify us, believers get to spend now through eternity discovering him, without fathoming his entire character. Unlike getting to know another person, since God is 100% good, we can be sure these discoveries will be good: reasons to enjoy him more and more. We want to think we’re incomprehensible, and we conceal our sins and ulterior motives, even from ourselves. Yet God fully knows us… all our strengths and struggles… and fully accepts us in Christ. Remembering this truth helps us avoid judging others, accept correction, and celebrate God’s character.

3. Self-existent – the God of infinite creativity. 

Do you feel inspired or intimidated by everyone posting about their quarantine DIY projects? All humans are creative in some capacity, whether making sculptures, smoothies, spreadsheets, or storage. But we’re not creating out of nothing; we’re re-combining existing materials. By contrast, “God, who is uncreated, created everything” (p. 45). What he made, he owns. As members of his creation, we’re responsible to guard others’ lives and care for creation. Worshiping created things and people is ultimately self-worship, as we view them as something to consume and discard. Like Nebuchadnezzar, we easily confuse stewardship with ownership, using God’s gifts to build our own kingdoms (Daniel 4). Recognizing God as the only true Creator shows us that our value comes from his authorship. Furthermore, when we mourn the absence of love or hope or repentance in our lives or relationships, we can trust “our Creator-God [who] specializes in bringing forth something from nothing” (p. 52). Let’s create joyfully and freely with the gifts entrusted to us, reflecting and worshiping our Creator.

4. Self-sufficient – the God of infinite provision. 

Covid has disrupted many people's normal way of meeting their needs. We have many needs; God has none. He wasn’t lonely without us, since the Trinity already enjoyed perfect relationship. He doesn’t rely on our faithfulness, morality, or performance. A need is a limit, and if God had needs, he could be controlled or manipulated. Because he’s self-sufficient, he cannot be tempted. Americans revere independence and often link our needs to our failures. But human needs pre-date the Fall, and we all need God and other believers. “Sanctification is the process of learning increasing dependence, not autonomy” (p. 63). Denying our need for God and others causes problems including prayerlessness, anger in trial, concealment, and exhaustion. Jesus modeled for us how to trust God with our needs. Since he’s fulfilled our greatest need, we can trust him to provide all other needs! Let’s acknowledge those needs, asking God and others for help, and offering help to others.

5. Eternal – the God of infinite days. 

Time defines us. “We are all products of our generation, tightly bound to the history into which we were born” (p. 70). But God exists outside of time and acts within it as he wills. All his actions within time happen at just the right time. Like children who don’t yet grasp the concept of yesterday, today, and tomorrow, we question God when his logic is beyond us. Even when we’re at a loss to understand, we can trust our time to our timeless God. That means…

• making good use of the present by avoiding laziness or compulsive busyness
• letting go of regret or idolatrous nostalgia about the past, and
• avoiding sinful anticipation or anxiety about the future.

In Psalm 90, Moses contrasts our eternal God with temporary humans, asking, “So teach us to number our days, that we may get a heart of wisdom” (verse 12). How do we use these days? “Here is a remarkable truth: God is able to bring eternal results from our time-bound efforts” (p. 79). Let’s spend our time where it counts: investing in people for eternity.

6. Immutable – the God of infinite sameness. 

God is often described as a rock, unchanging as all around him ebbs and flows. His attributes cannot change because they are infinite. His Word is unchanging; His promises and judgments are reliable. We, by contrast, experience constant change in our bodies, minds, and circumstances. Struggling to grasp God’s immutability, we seek temporary solace in someone or something that seems unchanging. Worse, when our sin is exposed, we say, That’s just me. I can’t change. As if our tendencies could outweigh God’s grace! “Just as my assurance of salvation rests in the fact that God cannot change, my hope of sanctification rests in the fact that I can” (p. 87). When we argue with others, we use phrases like you always… you never…, but these words, like the always and never love of 1 Corinthians 13, apply to God alone. Let’s abandon the idolatry of always and never with anyone else, taking refuge instead in God our rock.

7. Omnipresent – the God of infinite place. 

We humans can be in only one place at a time. (And during lockdown, that time might be much longer than we'd like.) God, on the other hand, is fully present everywhere at all times, despite remaining distinct from his creation. Our perceptions of his presence are limited and unreliable. Recent advances have enabled us to conduct business, spread knowledge, and build relationships across geographic boundaries. But every time we Skype, text, or shop online, we diminish our presence in (and attention to) our current location. As many have noted recently, social media is a poor substitute for in-person interaction. God can fully engage with us because He is present where we are. This truth should make us vigilant about sin (which we can’t hide from him) and secure in his comforting presence. Unlike human parents who must give their children increasing space as they grow up, God’s relationship with believers only changes from lesser to greater, culminating in eternity together. Though our bodies restrict us to one place at a time, God’s full presence dwells with each of us, and so we can each be fully present wherever he puts us.

8. Omniscient – the God of infinite knowledge. 

God never learns new things, and he never forgets. His knowledge is limitless. By contrast, learning is essential to the human experience. “There is a difference between healthy learning and information gluttony: one is about being fully human, and the other is about craving limitlessness” (p. 111). We're not designed to know it all. Coveting boundless knowledge can lead to information overload in the digital age, diminishing our attention, decision-making, action, and empathy. (Was I the only one compulsively googling this week?) Adam and Eve likewise sought knowledge not meant for them. We want to know the future and other people’s situations. We meddle, gossip, and hover, multiplying “their troubles and ours” (p. 116). The solution? Trust God, resting in four truths:

• You cannot outsmart God.
• You cannot bargain with God.
• You cannot fool God.
• You cannot rely on God to forget.

Instead of gorging ourselves on the information buffet, we can unclutter our minds with Psalm 131 and mind our own business: to understand what God has revealed, and to employ our minds in rightly loving God.  

9. Omnipotent – the God of infinite power. 

Natural disasters (like pandemics) let us glimpse power and powerlessness. Job comments in 26:14 that nature’s awesome displays of God’s power are “but the outer fringe of his works; how faint the whisper we hear of him! Who then can understand the thunder of his power?” God is a strong Father who longs to protect his fragile children, and we’re called to imitate him in protecting the weak. But when we fall for the lie that our obedience has earned our strength, we use our finite power to serve ourselves, not God and others. Humans often grant power to the physically strong, the beautiful, the wealthy, and the charismatic. Jesus was none of these, yet he exhibited divine power over the physical realm to reveal his power over the spiritual realm. By healing the sick and calming the storm, he “pointed to the most dumbfounding miracle of all: the display of his power to transform the human heart from stone to flesh” (p. 134). He changes what is depraved and broken into a home fit for the Holy One. We can trust God’s limitless power because it’s paired with his infinite goodness.

10. Sovereign – the God of infinite rule. 

In light of attributes #1-9, “the most right and logical place for God to inhabit is a throne” (p. 140). As our author, God holds all authority. His commands are good and trustworthy; obeying him makes sense! Divine sovereignty (God bringing good where evil was intended) paraxodically coexists with human responsibility (we’re accountable to him for our wrong choices). Craving our own sovereignty, we seek control in four areas:

• Our bodies: we’re called to care for – but not obsess over - our bodies regarding fitness, nutrition, hygiene, sleep, etc.
• Our possessions: they’re ours to steward, not to worship. We shouldn’t dwell on acquiring, multiplying, or maintaining what we have.
• Our relationships: All our relationships are an invitation to show God’s love, but conflict erupts when we seek control. Choose kindness instead.
• Our circumstances or environments: Ambiguity isn’t fun. Feeling out of control, we often overplan for contingencies or depend on routines.

Our control issues stem from speculating about “what ifs.” But we can acknowledge God’s reign over these four areas, while we control our thoughts, attitudes, words, and actions to honor him. God is our rightful Ruler and his authority is worth celebrating.

Though humans vie desperately to rival God, it's a relief to acknowledge we can't. Wilkin closes with Psalm 139, crammed with God’s marvelous and infinite attributes. “Awe begets humility, confession, and submission” (p. 158). When we experience awe, we become less self-absorbed, better able to connect with God and others. 

In this post, I’ve tried not to give away Wilkin’s whole hand, but rather to whet your appetite for the real thing. Scriptures, humor, lyrical passages, discussion questions… there’s so much great content I’ve left out. Yet with just 158 pages, it’s an easy and engaging read. It would be a great book to discuss online with a friend or two!